'' I had an awakening this morning"

[TrentC]

I do know who the source of the information came from. This person is a very good customer of ours and he knows my wife and saw W and OM together. I called source myself and talk to him. He saw them together and once W and OM regognized they were spotted,they both backed off.

OK, so that's the one incident. What about all of the other stuff?

You don't believe your wife, and you don't want to trust her. Maybe she doesn't deserve that trust.

But you aren't going to be able to rebuild your relationship until you can learn to trust her. It'll probably take a transparency plan, for starters.