Don't know where to post this.

[TrentC]

She has left me to schedule all appointments with MC and IC and agrees that she has anger issues and other things to address in counseling but does not know how to schedule. She asked me to schedule the appointments. I was also asked to take care of her speeding ticket.

What do you mean by "she doesn't know how to schedule"? She doesn't know who to talk to? Can't you give her that info?

You have a crazy power struggle going on. She wants to bang another guy and let him tell her how pretty she is, but she wants you to take care of her.

You're not her husband, you're her surrogate father.

For me all I wanted out of the marriage was what she was giving me already before this all started.

Which was what, exactly?

Like I said originally -- you two need to learn how to communicate better. But she has huge, unresolved issues that have blown up every relationship she's been in, will likely blow up your marriage, and will continue to hobble her until she addresses them.