C went well. Working on dealing w/ the issues and not casting myself as a monster. That's hard, given the sitch. Also trying to come to terms w/ the idea that there is no more hope of reconciling. Fake it till you make it, seems to be a mantra of R problems.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)