"...And you are?" Names after the Divorce

[Silver Fox]

Hey Gypsy, great thread. I always learn something from your posts.

I am a little concerned lately on the amount of energy and though that is going into the exes or whatever you guys want to call them. Also soem are spending an inordinate amount of time on the new "friends" in their lives (or the new old friends).

Not to worry john. I think we have things in perspective. Early on after the OW bomb, it is indeed very unhealthy to think about her. There's plenty of support and advice in Newcomers for this.

But after 1, 2, 3 years and certainly after the D, I think we deserve the right to skewer the skank whenever we feel like it.

Women love to talk about women. Add a OW to the mix and well....let the party begin!

I vote for KerryK's suggestion * for your X Gypsy!