Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

I am hoping that her IC will help her but her IC is also our MC. Any thoughts?

My IC is helping me and I don't want to leave her but I do not want to enable her either.

She does show me respect in some aspects of life but not when it comes to her A.

She has come out of the fog enough to stop demonizing me but now is demonizing herself and seems to be going through mild depression at times. I know she feels the guilt but has told others that she is afraid to come back to me because I can never accept her again and she is afraid to be alone.

I will stop texting or calling unless it has to do with the children and will not initiate sex or physical contact with her.

Should I not return calls and text? Should I stop accepting displays of affection? Or should I let them continue only when she pursues.