OK, after reading this, you have far too many serious issues going on in your situation for me to help you with. She was raped and sexually abused. Has she ever gone to counseling to deal with these? You, and she, both need IC in addition to join MC.
She got involved with you, and you have demonstrated that you can be no better than the other men in her life; you're controlling and manipulative. Seeing a pattern here?
Originally Posted By: loveherstill
As far as the break it off slow thing, I agree but she has a hard time with this and has always either had to make a guy break up with her or let him down slowly.
No, that's how she has chosen to deal with it. And guess what? You're next in line.
She doesn't want to take responsibility for her feelings or her decisions; if you leave then she's the victim. She's blatantly disrespecting you to your face, hoping that you'll be just like all the other guys and take off on her.
Originally Posted By: loveherstill
OM is 40 never had kids, never had wife, makes very little money, lives in a single wide trailer, smokes (neither w or I do), balding, opposite of her prefered body type and drinks heavily.
Who will probably treat her like crap, too, once you're out of the picture. It's all she feels she deserves.
Originally Posted By: loveherstill
She only took the kids after I played a head game for jealousy and should have my teeth kicked for.
No, I think you're paying for that now.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
