Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

She started with this man on November 7th. Same day they met. She has been to see him no more than 11 times counting tonight. I have friends that live where they can see his house. She has had the opportunity to see him another 23 times but chose me instead. This cake eater only goes to see him when we fight.

You all are right about distancing. When I have cut off and stopped pursuing her she has ignored him and chased me. She has told me that she wants to be pursued.

About me dating. I have talked to a couple of new women met through work connections for many hours at a time and felt a huge change in my PMA. I have never went out with these women more than once as I do not want another R to complicate things.

What do you think? I am a little slow and may require a few hundred 2X4's to get in shape.