Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

I did not know she took kids to see him until after. However I hoped that kids might scare him off. OM is 40 never had kids, never had wife, makes very little money, lives in a single wide trailer, smokes (neither w or I do), balding, opposite of her prefered body type and drinks heavily. I have considered restraining order for the kids as he has had one before when at 33 he hit his sister and she filed one. Afraid restraining order may push them together.

She only took the kids after I played a head game for jealousy and should have my teeth kicked for.

I will tell her exposing kids to him is unacceptable. To tell the truth she does not want to take kids there anyway as they depress him and cramp their time.