Yep, goals 1 & 2 are in progress . . . goal 3 will hopefully come along soon.

What ended up happening was I was standing there & put my arms across my breasts & said "maybe you should take a picture of ME like this to put on your desk" he immediately turned red & was embarrassed and said something like "it wasn't like that" and I impersonated him by saying "I want THAT" and pointing at an imaginary magazine. He said "I don't have it on my desk, it wasn't like that."

I guess end result is that he knows I know about it & that it bothered me. He reacted like he was embarrassed about the whole thing & said it wasn't a big deal.

Thanks for talking to me, Cutter. Need some guidance.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10