In re: DISENGAGE, I think I tend to come off bitchy. I know I give this look.... you know, the raised eyebrows look that just says... "Really? Are you really acting like this? Are you really going here?" Not sure if THE LOOK is a replacement for some words that need to be said.
Bottom line... I liked how I felt after.
And, I guess that's what matters! In the past I would have pouted, or cried a bit, etc... NO BOO HOO ON ME! BOO HOO ON HIM!
Uh, Oh, I think I'm starting to ROAR.
Upcoming talk? I guess I'd better get rid of the new ROAR first. (AND BUY SOME NEW SASSY SHOES! LoL) I'm nervous about it, but I think, if delivered correctly, he'll probably not give it much lip service, but he will respond to my request positively. We had an issue about a year ago, and (this isn't typical me) I GOT PISSED. I told him you will NOT do this. He hasn't.
Last edited by mindfull; 01/09/1008:18 PM. Reason: Added in shoes comment for spice!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
