I walked at the Y this am in my NEW REAR TONIN' shoes! An hour and fifteen minutes... I'll be whining later!
S12's last bball game was canceled for tonight. Bunch of freakin' whimps that can't handle a little snow! Don't they know we needed a win to finish in first?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
taking out processed foods.white flour..and sugar...can alter an americans diet a LOT! lol
a defungal would be good.. and on the acai, you need to look for the green film, if it doesn't have that, it's not a good product. that's the main ingredient in ours, so I know more about it.
hearing the cell flow is stagnant...that doesn't sound good! and I definitely agree, all that medicine you were on is not going to do the rest of your body good.
does she check for alkalinity/acidity? you want to be alkaline.
I'll have to look up the rouleau and erythrocyte stuff..that's over my head!! lol
hope you really notice a difference soon. How is your H doing on his? It's been several weeks for him right?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
H has done really well w/what was recommended for him. He's a bit more disciplined than I know I will be! He had yeast issues, so all breads/pastas/condiments were GONE, and I mean, COMPLETELY GONE! I would never have survived!!! He couldn't even do wheat flour or whole grain breads!
He was tired for awhile, as he didn't have many carbs! But, I can tell you that his stomach issues disappeared as soon as he altered his diet, detoxed, and took the supplements suggested.
I told her... WARNING - I will not be completely compliant, so give me suggestions that will be reality-based!
So, we'll see...
This weather blows... LITERALLY!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
G, this ought to be interesting!!! Probably will happen tomorrow night, or Monday am while kids are in school...
H came home in wee hours from work. I wake up because the dog's going nuts. We talk, joke, watch some tv, fall asleep, etc...
This am I get up and take S12 to bball practice, and come back about 12:15 or so. H is in shower, had obviously just gotten up. So, I go in to chat (we both do this a lot...), and let him know we're home. First thing he starts in on "checking on things" I got done this week, that are on HIS invisible list that I should have gotten done, and you can tell he has a slight edge in his voice.
So, I go about my business, and cheerfully answer, because, WHO CARES... WTF, I've lived through years of him being overtired, exhausted during the winter months because of work issues surrounding weather, etc... Well, he starts in on a topic, and is getting edgier, and I answer him, and give him a semi-sarcastic, "Geez!" He sticks his head out of the shower, and blasts me for the GEEZ. (LoL) He says, "I've had the WORST f'ing week of my LIFE. I don't need to come home to THIS. Enough of your GEEZ. One more GEEZ and I'm turning around and leaving." (Now, seriously, this is a LoL! I mean, really? Any other time we banter back and forth...) So, as he's staring out of the shower like a psycho freak, I just reply... "It must have been bad for you to be like this! I'll talk to you later!" And, I left. He's calling my name, and yelling, "HELLO!!!!!!!!" (Serious LoL here, again...)
I go about my business, and he comes out of the shower. I act like the idiocy never happened. And, he's fine.
He comes into the kitchen, goes over the stuff I need on the list from the naturopath, and starts taking charge of it. So, he's going to get my stuff, will make the tea, etc... He's also talking about apt hunting re: D18, etc...
He leaves to go run his errands, and calls 15 min later re: D18 apt stuff. Offers to go look at some w/her if I'm busy, etc... Joking a bit, etc... I tell him what time S12 needs to go tonight to the varsity game (as it's Jr. High night), and we talk about the game, what they're doing, etc... He says he's not sure why we have to go since they suck this year. (LoL AGAIN) And, I tell him, "YOU don't! I will be happy to take S12, and enjoy the time w/friends and their families, since they will be there. It'll be fun to see S12 recognized." H replies, "Well, why wouldn't I go, we don't have anything else scheduled."
FREAK!
I've now decided that I'm not take any of this personal. He, CLEARLY does this when he is dog tired from work. Other days, I would have been reduced to tears.
NOPE! You wanna be a freak!? Do it on your own, and come find ME when you need me because I'm not stickin' around to listen to it.
Is that bitchy, db smart, or just plain psycho?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
DB smart...... He is tired, he works like a dog, your full of energy, happy and that makes the pissiness more from them.
Remember, I never engage.... that is what I say everytime STBXH is yelling, bitching, complainimg... my mantra is .. "don't engage". I haven't in over two years.... it feels good. It's powerful stuff, but unfortunelty it reallly pisses them off at them time.... but you know what I notice now.... STBXH has started saying he is sorry. I don't bring it to his attention or anything..... I always act them same. of course, it's easier for me because I'm done and there is no emotion there for me. But i think you did well
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I'm thinking that book (I think it was R2C recommended), "Why Men Love Bitches" might be a good read for me! Because, trust me, this man is responding better to me being a bit of a snot to him!
And, it was actually kind of humorous... the calling after me if I walk away from him... the searching the house for me when I didn't stay and engage him afterward... the calling w/in 15 min of him leaving...
Maybe he just needs a Bith@h!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I like what SandyCay says about not engaging. When my H is in a snitty mood or does something that usually annoys me, I will silently scream to myself DISENGAGE!!!
How are you feeling about your upcoming talk with H?
and I definitely agree, all that medicine you were on is not going to do the rest of your body good. 