Coming up on One-Year of DB'ing...

[sandycay]

DB smart...... He is tired, he works like a dog, your full of energy, happy and that makes the pissiness more from them.

Remember, I never engage.... that is what I say everytime STBXH is yelling, bitching, complainimg... my mantra is .. "don't engage". I haven't in over two years.... it feels good. It's powerful stuff, but unfortunelty it reallly pisses them off at them time.... but you know what I notice now.... STBXH has started saying he is sorry. I don't bring it to his attention or anything..... I always act them same. of course, it's easier for me because I'm done and there is no emotion there for me. But i think you did well