First off, paragraphs are your friend. Can you go back and chunk your last post into paragraphs to help people be willing to read through all of that text?

Second, sorry you're here, but it's a good place to be.

Finally, if your H wants space, tell HIM to move out. YOU want in the M, so you're not leaving.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!