Thanks for the pep talk BA. Yes the house issue is tough. He knew it would be when he dropped the first bomb and at the OW bomb he assured me that he told her "the house has to be taken care of first" - yet he's done nothing.
His sad face keeps coming back to haunt me since the conference. Many have talked about the eyes of the MLC'er - and they are indeed frightening. There was no emotion really - no anger or sadness - just a glassy, not there look. Guess I'd better do some reading about depression, as I have no knowledge of it what so ever.
It's quite a hole he's dug for himself. And there he is, sitting at the bottom of it with his arms folded and his bottom lip stuck out like a petulant teenager.
Yes, going it alone BA might be the choice for me.
Thanks Pearl - I looked at your new shoes! Excellent decision to buy them. Now, will you be wearing them with a new dress? Or not?
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10