"...And you are?" Names after the Divorce

[hoosiermama]

xH is not "the one I love." He is, however, the father of my daughter--who I DO love. Yes, it was he who pursued the woman--and when she said "yes, but I don't do affairs" our marriage was over in 2 days (well, plus the time for all the legal stuff to transpire). I have absolutely no respect for either of them, and I have to watch D13 struggle to deal with the denial, hypocrisy and undesired restructuring of her life.

I can't say I spend a lot of time or energy on anger; however, I am aware it's there. It doesn't feel like it takes up a lot of space in my life. I use this as a forum to vent, so that I'm not stuffing it and having it burst out around my daughter. I don't have a lot of folks in real life I can vent to--this is about it for me.