Saw that movie last night. It was hilarious. Until the end . . . then it was sad & depressing & left me feeling out of sorts.
Ok, let me see if I can put into words what is bothering me:
Last night I went to that movie w/ 2 women that my H works w/. They told me the following story that they thought was very funny: The girls were all looking through some magazine w/ expensive houses, etc. in it. Oohing & ahing over all the beautiful cabinets, etc. Well, H comes over & on the back cover was an ad for some TV show w/ a naked woman w/ her arms crossed over her breasts & H says "I want THAT." Now I guess he has this ad on his desk at work.
This really bothers me for some reason, although I'm using the 48 hour rule before I bring it up b/c then there is a part of me that is thinking "this is really no big deal." H is here & acts like he is still attracted to me all the time, etc.
So, am I making a bigger deal about this in my head? Is this really silly? It just bothers me that he would even say he wanted something or someone other than me even if it is just a TV ad woman.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10