Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ya,

no matter what it is, it hurts.

Also, there have been multiple partners for her. Would probably be easier if there were just one, but she is searching for something.

I tried to speculate and all it got me was deeper into my funk.

She hasn't contacted me besides short, curt texts and e-mails.

I haven't contacted her since Tuesday, I will continue that unless I need to respond to something about the boys.

Also, she NEVER initiates R talk, just when she is angry that she can't wait to be divorced from me etc.