Moving on with my life!

[Startingover2]

Last night he sent the same text 3 times and gave up around 9:30.

It is now currently during his visit time until 10 which is in 20 minutes. No call nor text saying he is coming or not. I am leaving right at 10 to run some errands. Knowing exh he will text soon and expect to come over now.

We have a bday party this afternoon so its a busy day!

BOUNDARIES! Working for me...not so much for him.

[sandycay]

Been folllowing along. I am so proud of you that you have finally reached this place. It's hard, I know but it is better for you.

[Startingover2]

Thanks SC..It does feel better even though its hard.

Exh finally sent a text at 10:30 saying he was leaving to work for a bit. That could be true, maybe not. Either way he missed his time this morning. He said he would text later. Yah, don't bother...we are busy 180ing and GALing!

Go Cowboys!

[sandycay]

You go girl! You can do it!

[Startingover2]

I did it! I only responded to 1 message out of 14!

Exh started tonight about 5:30...
"Whats going on. Been at work most of the day."
**which is a lie cuz someone saw him driving today.
He sent that 4 times.
"How is baby doing?"
That I responded to after 30 minutes and said she was great.
"Why haven't you answered my texts?"
Sent 3 times.
"Hello? WTF?"
Sent 3 times.
"Give my girl a kiss for me"
Sent once so far.

It sorta feels like a game, but I know its drawing my line in the sand.

[bright_new_day]

Put the phone down and go do something!!! Watch a movie, read a book. Don't look at the phone until tomorrow!

[Startingover2]

Put the phone down and go do something!!! Watch a movie, read a book. Don't look at the phone until tomorrow!

HaHa! I only responded to the one about baby. He finally quit about 10.

Church today and then not sure what to do. Gotta keep busy.

[kassie]

Hi SO2

See you posting on the other site with me - I started another thread here - seems one can have a convo here better - look for me in Sep-NW- under new year - new view?

Been trying to follow along and keep up with you -doing better.

[Startingover2]

HAHA! Exh just blasted me via text message for talking with MGF. Guess she told him about our brief conversations. He was very angry with me for talking bad about him...I got a spine and said I told her nothing that wasn't the truth. In other words...he was angry yet another lie came full circle. My daughter did say she has seen MGF's car at exh's alot in the past few days so I imagine they are back together.

Geez, when is the guy going to realize that his patterns of cheating, getting caught always catch up with him?

I stood my ground though and didn't apologize or weaken. I also ended the conversation quickly and said I was busy and to have a good day!

[Startingover2]

Don't you feel empowered!? You are doing so good! he is a pathological liar. And liars do not like to be caught. it's a fact. Reality is catching up to him.

I realized something that applies to all of us:
It's going to be OK.

I did feel empowered. All he could say to me when I was giving him his crap right back was "I love my daughter ok?" I kept telling him that nobody said he didnt and baby had nothing to do with how he conducts his personal life.

He does the same thing over and over with exactly the same outcomes...then he just moves on to someone else.