So you know, my W and I had a 6 week seperation after a year of hell. The seperation was our rock bottom, we are now about 10 weeks into being back together. I am happy. But that does not mean that I don't have moments of anxiety over the future. Getting back together does not make that go away.
I think for reconciliation to work, you must live in the present. Enjoy the moment in the present. Learn to love life when you are with your W and when you are not. It is not her job to make you happy; that is yours.
Perhaps I missed another thread, but why were the 2 of you seperated?
