I completely agree that my W is in full WAS mode right now and is saying things she knows are untrue to try to convince herself what she is doing is ok. I know she probably believes the things she is saying.
Hi Gima, Been following along without much to say but wanted to add one thing here. Do you remember the thread we had about cognitive dissonance? You are seeing this first hand. What your W is doing goes completely against her own belief system so she has to create this alternative reality in order to cope. I know that doesn't make things any easier but it is what it is. Just don't let her suck you into her emotional vortex.
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