Ok here are my theories as to why W has not introduced OM to kids (from most likely, to least likley):
1. She wants to protect the kids and give them a chance to acclimate more to what D means. 2. She is waiting for the D to be offiical so she does not make hereself look teriible in the eyes of the kids. (They will get older and eventually figure out what happened.) 3. She is afraid it will change the R between her and the OM. (I am sure they have talked about the intro and have a plan.) 4. She thinks I will freak and is afraid a war will ensue (My plan is to stay calm; let her know that I will support the kids if they need me but that I will not support the R with the OM and to prevent further issues, to keep him away from me! 5. She has doubts or guilt about what she is doing (this is unlikely, if she had doubts she would not be as open about the R with her family as she has been and she is obviosuly not to concerned about what her actions are making her look like as a person). 6. She has no plans as of yet and is just waiting for the right moment..very unlikley.
