Thanks for checking in on me and I really do want to hear your take. I could have said you were very direct with your advice (which I like and think is a very good thing) but I don't recall saying you were sarcastic. If I did, I'm sure you know I meant it in a very ppositive way.
I completely agree that my W is in full WAS mode right now and is saying things she knows are untrue to try to convince herself what she is doing is ok. I know she probably believes the things she is saying.
But you will probably recognize what is going on when you read my posts from this week on my thread.