If you and your wife could read His needs, Her needs ASAP I think if could help greatly.

I know that after a 14 month in-house separation (his decision)- I had many, many moments of "your such a b@stard, you are not worthy of me". They pass...

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)