Wife wants best of both worlds

[MHL]

Great, I believe what your wife said and sometimes those things happen. They happened before you were separated and they will continue to happen. As far as the pop in thing, If I were you I would say pop into her place, and leave something of yours personal say something like your "underware" I know its juvenile but when OM comes over and knows you were there, don't you think that would piss him off and he would start messing up? Just a thought. Your sitch is different in that you have a known quantity with respect to the OM, whereas with my W she is going for slut of the century. BTW great looking kids, I know they mean the world to you.

My sitch is the same, however a little small thing last night a positive. D13 spent the night with a friend. So I got my S9 to go w/ me to guys poker night. S9 is frends with the son of the guy hosting, they played video games and watched tv all night, it was fun for both of us. When we got home 11:30 there was a message on the phone from my W wanting to say goodnite to ALL OF US (normally just S9)after she got of work from PT job at the mall. I never told her what we were doing, in fact did not speak to her at all yesterday. She sounded like I do when I call her and have to leave a voice mail, a little unsure what to say and you could detect a slight disappointment in her voice. She never calls on Friday or Saturday nights after work b/c she is usually on her way out to party or meet a man and would not want to field any questions I might ask. Hmmmm...what does this mean, well nothing now but it has been noted as a change in behavior in the book of "where in the hell did my Wife go?" I will update my sitch in a little while, S9 wants me to play video games right now, its just me and him so I am going to enjoy this time with him. ltr.