H texts me "Sorry I didn't hear back from you today. Are we not talking now?"..I texted him " I just need some time to process. At movie. Text later."
KJ I feel for you, I am right behind you I think in this process. I agree with walking's assessment of the moving closer, moving further away dance. I would not text your H about anything other than business. I would try not to even do that if possible. Don't tell him you need more time or that you are not talking to him. He will get the message. NC is a form of communication. It sends a message by itself. I think it is the message you really want to send to him. I know that it is harder with kids but you can do it!
