Breathe its her problem not yours! She is feeling guilty that she is not pulling her weight let her. Sorry not quite up to date with your thread do you have a job too or are you SAHD?

Next time dont forget to breathe, when she winds you up, and politely say "its not a competition, but someone has to take the job onboard and you have been busy so I did it" If she accepts that well, just add that you are sure she will do her stint when she can! That may lay the argument to rest but also encourage her to come home and do more.

Hopefully by now you will have snuggled back into bed (())

ETA And dont beat yourself up for losing it we all do at some time!

Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 01/09/10 11:49 AM.
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