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[gutwrenching]

well that didn't turn out like I thought. W just informed me why she got so pissy and it pissed me off and I probably should have kept my mouth shut. She is pissed because there has been so much role reversal in taking care of the kids. Everything that she brings up, I took care for the and she feels it is a competition. That pissed me off. I am not going to drag the kinds into the middle of our issues and she should know that. I told her that. So I work my tail off all week to support her and take care of everything at the house, she feels guilty cause she hasnt seen them for 3 days, and then Im the bad guy because I let her know that I took care of all the concerns with the kids. Man that ain't right. So I left the bed. She asked why, told I wasn't tired and I was tired of being treated nasty.
I had to come here and vent before I really said something stupid.
So now that the girls are taken care of by me, it is suddenly unacceptable.
I also had to leave because I was too close to saying something about how she didn't give a darn who was taking care of them when she was in the throws with the OM.
Darn, I was feeling so good about how today went