my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

"Yes. And now that there's absolutely no chance for us, I'm sure that stings, doesn't it?" Then she walked away.

Your W is a pretty mean person. This is not the first time she has deliberately said something to hurt you, for no reason, other than you won't bow down to her wishes.

I would get going on that lawyer soon. She may've done so already.

And this "dysfunctional marriage" she keeps harping on --- she could've tried fixing it. I think there is something seriously wrong here --- an underlying feeling of selfishness and toughness. She would make a good salesperson. I think you are too close to the sitch, and from our perspective (if you are telling everything) she's not going to back down unless she is forced to do so by law. I rather feel sorry for the OM. I doubt he's getting the full truth just as you aren't either.

Protect yourself, and you protect your children too. She is their mother, but she will not hesitate to keep them from you, by the sounds of it. And, how can kids be travelling around the world, not going to school, etc. Sounds very unstable. And isn't it a little dramatic, with the world is her country (or whatever) and you won't deny her giving them that, yadda yadda.