90 days is the minimum time from filing with the court to a judge granting a divorce. It can take longer if mediation takes awhile, if we go to court...mediation is mandatory in my county. If children are involved then we are required to go to a co-parenting class as well.
So went to a movie with D14 tonight(Leap Year-cute, feel-good movie) and H texts me "Sorry I didn't hear back from you today. Are we not talking now?"..I texted him " I just need some time to process. At movie. Text later."
So when I got home I texed him that I was home and said "what's up?"..no response(he's probably asleep or out...)
Hard to tell emotions with texts..can't tell if fear about not talking or anger... I'd really like time to avoid seeing him a bit, but D14 says she and H are doing something together tomorrow-not sure what(of course heard this from D14..)
Will see what fun the weekend brings...
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.