I don't know how everyone does the little boxes when responding to others posts and answering a question.
MO3: Not that has been confirmed. But of course has been denied (prior to implementing DB). Short of hiring a PI, I have tried to exhaust all options of investigation. Since he has moved out and setup a separate banking account I don’t have access to things that would offer a lot of clues. My only source of info now is his blackberry phone records. Unbeknownst to him, I can access them online. Nothing out of the ordinary is showing up. However, with that said, I find it very hard to believe someone would just up and walk away without having someone waiting in the wings. I am not naïve, I just haven’t been able to come up with any proof and have stopped trying to do so.
I'm also having the same problem as yours above. I can't find any proof either, and do have access to blackberry records, but it doesn't show me anything. He is living with his mom, and from her I find out that almost every night he doesn't come home until way after midnight. Therefore, I'm very suspicious that he is with an OW. I've asked in the past and he denies. I to find it very hard to believe that my H would walk away without someone waiting, are enticing him to not work on our M. This has been the most difficult for me, is the not knowing. I still snoop, when I know I shouldn't. However, I am doing it less and less.
Sorry I don't have much advice to give, as I'm still too new at this. However, it is nice to know I'm not alone. Together 16 years Married 12 years D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
