"...And you are?" Names after the Divorce

[cat03]

i too abhor the "my" usage, so I always say "the ex" or "the kids' dad" wife is too much of a good word for his W, so I usually say his S... not because I feel any jelousy or attachment towards him... because what they have is a joke... he is trying to divorce this woman after three months...but that's another story...

It really helped me detach when I changed his profile on my phone, it now has an X as his name and the picture of a big mouthed frog... It made me even laugh sometimes when he'd called and I'd see the pict...