GIMA,

I have been following along, I have a few questions:

In my sitch, I KNOW my W is hurting, I understand and accept that. If the WAS is hurting so bad, what keeps them from doing whatever it takes to heal that pain?

In my sitch, my W opened up to me-well, it SEEMED that way, and then completely boarded up that house after I left.

Was this her way of validating what she was doing? Did she FEEL better after reeling me back in, and then causing me more pain with her 180?

Didn't mean to hijack, just wanted to weigh in and maybe get some help.

Thanks for your input.

Last edited by SoldierDad; 01/09/10 04:38 AM.
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