I feel that the weekends are the hardest for me, as my mind wanders about what my W is out doing. I am pretty good during the week, but these weekends, I struggle to get through.
There's got to be something you can do.
Someone suggested volunteering for extra duty. See if any of your comrades-in-arms have some ways to pass the time you haven't tried, like boardgames or card games; I'm a gaming nerd at heart, and there are more fun games out there than you can play in a single weekend.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement