Lying about feelings drags you to their level?

[Serenity13]

KS~

I have been following this thread all day...I have seen veterans come here and offer advice to you on a thread you called "general"...

You even brought Coach out of hiding to comment and that isn't an easy thing to do...

For this being a "general thread", you sure are pissed off at the responses...

Lying about feelings - It isn't about lying...It is about setting up boundaries that you can live with...

You stated that a divorce was a dealbreaker for you and that is all fine and well however once you came here and saw that this isn't a "divorce support forum" - Why did you stay?

Why didn't you walk away? You were told on the very first page of your thread by Lotus as well as Norm that this board wasn't what you were looking for yet you still stayed and sought advice and still received advice...

Your mind was made up the day you came here and no one can fault you for that yet here you still are calling my friends names, challenging each one of us who is trying to save their marriage, acting holier then thou...

Wrong place for you - SD said it best on your other thread...

And I, too, am wondering what she wants from her experience here. Is it to tell all the standers that they're stupid and foolish? Is it to get others to agree that she's doing the right thing because she secretly questions her choice? And people have asked, but she hasn't responded.

Maybe it is time to re-google what you though you googled to begin with.

Good luck - Somewhere out there is a forum filled with people who will convince you what an excellent choice you have made - This isn't that forum.