Lady - enough.

Get lost or perhaps consider that maybe some of us HAVE gone through a divorce (if we filed or were filed on) and maybe *some* of us could offer a bit of insight.

I have not made one joke so don't dare include me in your rant.

I have tried to participate in the conversation, even the "open discussion YOU requested" with thoughtful insight and you did not bother to respond to ONE of my questions. Instead you rant and name call.

MOST PEOPLE even when cheated on, do not file for a divorce ASAP. If you want to then go ahead and all the best. If you needed to talk then talk away but don't be rude and class the people that did try and converse in the way you dictated we should as a bunch of jerks. Maybe you are the jerk. Maybe you are frustrated and hurt and scared. I don't know because each time I asked you what sort of support you needed you ignored me.