He hasn't looked deep inside himself to really examine what happened to our M, at least from what I can tell. It starts and stops with my alleged issues, and in all our discussions, he couldn't get past that. He could never talk about his role.
The good news is, once you are out of his life, he won't have that excuse any more.
You're doing really good.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement