CTH, Your falling back into a trap. It is not, nor has it ever been your job to make your W happy. Did you miss signs maybe. Did she bring up her unhappiness -no.

Don't take on more than your share. Be careful of the revisionist history. Your starting to sound like a WAS.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09