He seems to like the finer things in life and have very particular taste in things - kind of a classy guy. OW, on the other, I picture kinda vulgar, slutty and not classy at all. I could be wrong completely, but that is just the picture you've painted in my head from your postings. It seems a relationship based on not much more than lust (Sorry but roller coasters and video games don't guarantee long-term stability and committment) and from a compatibility standpoint it seems you would be a better fit for him. This is where I glean hope for your sitch.
Thank you!! Now when will he realize this? I really am trying to paint a true picture of OW and WH--I should admit that OW is "nice" (relatively) but the rest is true, I promise!! oh--they both like control and they both keep track of expenses--can't think of the verb but it entails entering in every receipt and budgeting. So those two things in common added to video games and sex mean they are SOUL MATES right???lol
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I really am trying to paint a true picture of OW and WH--I should admit that OW is "nice" (relatively) but the rest is true, I promise!! oh--they both like control and they both keep track of expenses--can't think of the verb but it entails entering in every receipt and budgeting. So those two things in common added to video games and sex mean they are SOUL MATES right???lol
