Hi Newmama!

I hope I didn't offend you at all or make you think it is time to drop the rope or D. Not at all! I just felt that based on the most recent actions by WH, it is time to change strategies a bit. But, like p17 said, it is from my own perspective based on my experiences in relationships.

To be honest, from your descriptions of OW and WH, I cannot believe they are a good match. He seems to like the finer things in life and have very particular taste in things - kind of a classy guy. OW, on the other, I picture kinda vulgar, slutty and not classy at all. I could be wrong completely, but that is just the picture you've painted in my head from your postings. It seems a relationship based on not much more than lust (Sorry but roller coasters and video games don't guarantee long-term stability and committment) and from a compatibility standpoint it seems you would be a better fit for him. This is where I glean hope for your sitch.