Surrendering is saying to the other side you win. We give up. Here we give ourselves to you to do with as you please.
In D nobody wins. She won't win. I won't win.
Dropping the rope is saying, I love you but I can't fix you or our R anymore. I am working on me now and protecting me and my family. You have made your decision and you must play that out. I will make mine.
That's my take on it.
Oh, and I wasn't offended!
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I think it was good that I was ready to go, BUH BYE WH! and not eager to hang out chatting with him.
End contact first ... always good!
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
