Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

How do I react when my w is simultaneously pushing me away, and complaining that I am too distant.

I've been traveling and she's short on the phone when I call home to talk to the boys - and now she is angry because we never talk.

She pushes me away and refuses any connection, and then complains that there is none.

She demands space and then complains that our m is bad because we never see one another.

She is angry that I have been gone, but tells me (in an annoyed tone) not to disturb her or wake her when I got home.

I can't win for losing.