WAW Using God

[pigskin]

I could use some input on handling the enforcement of a boundary.

W still has some online connection to OM (like facebook) and his number in her cell phone. Probably has pictures as well. When she moved out, we agreed I would move out on weekends and let her spend time at the house with the kids under the condition that ALL OM contact ceased. We did this through December. I since discovered the links to OM but she said she is not willing to drop some aspects of the OM connection. I have told her then I will no longer be leaving on weekends.

Given that she still has OM connections, I would like to say she has to stay at her apartment permanently. She can visit the kids, but can't stay overnight. My problem is this: I can't force her out of the house. Since I have no leverage there, I am not even going to bring it up until I can come up with something.

Any suggestions? Making her sleep on the couch (again, not sure that can be enforced either if she refuses)? How have others handled this? I don't want to make any declarations that I can't enforce.