One thing I did was to call the State Bar Association and ask how I could learn more. There are seminars/classes, whatever you want to call them, that are hosted all over the state for free. You won't get specific legal advice but you do get a very good overall view of divorce and legal proceedings. I went to three because each one was hosted by a different attny and I thought it was important to hear how one attny viewed things vs. another.
They will explain the grounds and procedure but not advise you personally. Each seminar/class is three hours and very informative. Or I should say I found them informative.
