STBXH ended up screaming at me on the phone on Wed. I never engaged and tried to calm/diffuse the situation. To no avail so I finally said I'm going to hang up because you are screaming at me. He screams''' No I'll hang up first"... Whatever
He was screaming because he was suppose to give me the whole amount of money he owes me on the 1st (his decision) Well he then discovered he can't transfer the whole amount at a time so he send a text saying he'll send it over the next 5 days. Well I got one deposit then nothing. I needed to pay the mortg and bills and need to feed the kids... so I called him on Wed. and he flipped a lid.... I'm pressuring him.. it's gonna be a long 5 years (how long he is paying support) blah blah blah... so I told him that It was not me that decided to pay me all at once and that all he needed to do was communicate if he was having money troubles.
He told me that he has a million things to do and it's about his job so if the kids I want him to keep that I better stop pressuring him.... seriously one phone call and I did not say "where the F is my money". I mean he had "forgotten" once.. so I was just checking.
After, all this find out our health insurance has been cancelled... fun times!
THEN the big one I got today via text:
H; Can you please stop with the seperation proceedings for a short while. Everytime you do something like the insurance... it opens more questions and more that I'm having to put out. Please....please....give me a break from this. Freakin money flows out of my pocket. I know you're not doing it on purpose, but I need to take a breath. Every day is another financial brush fire.
How the heck to I respond to that? The insurance he is talking about is the car. I put my car and my jewlery and the house on my policy... since I called the insurance co. and because he was not living in the home..he was in violation of the contract.... which made me not be fully covered... i.e...if I had borrowed someone's car and wrecked...Not covered... so I am paying my own. So I don't know why that's effected him.... dont' know how to respond!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
