LR...I do not mind at all that you are here! The more advice I can get the better! I understand what you are saying about learning to be independent! The sad thing for me is, is that I didn't get married until I was 31 and I WAS a very independent person before that but I only had myself to think of and I had a landlord for problems with my house and I had my Dad around IF I had a flat tire etc....but, I have a feeling that I will think the same way as you...how can we EVER fully trust our H's ever again??? I swear the other day when I was out digging for that wood and breaking my fingernails and freezing I was feeling a little like Scarlett O'Hara in Gone With the Wind...I don't remember the exact quote but something like "as God is my witness, I will never go hungry again!" but we can insert "never be this cold again!" :-)
My S14 has always been his Dad's little shadow...whatever Dad did, he was right there trying to do it too! I am very proud of him for handling this as well as he has!!! D11 just seems kind of "indifferent" at this point...not sure what to think of that. Thanks again for stopping by and please do so again! I will catch up with your sitch!!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
