P, it is really great that your changes are evident to others! It means they are real! great job improving yourself; I'm especially impressed with the fact you improved your listening skills--that gives me an idea to do the same!!bravo!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
