I agree. I wish I hadn't told her, but at the same time I wasn't hoping she would be touched either - I knew she wouldn't. I just got caught flat-footed when she asked and wasn't sure what to say, and I decided I didn't want to lie or hide the truth I guess. I was probably a little mentally exhausted after all that has gone on and she caught me off guard when I was still in bed first thing in the morning.
We are definitely at a different kind of low point right now. She is very angry this week. There is NOTHING to be gained by engaging with her on any level really right now.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
