The posters on here who have had success all say their spouses needed time to be separated to come back on their own. And also, we learn to be independent and calm our own panic buttons and learn to focus on ourselves better during such a time.
Its not easy but it can be done and is best for both of you, I was a panicker, I blew my stack for want of a better word over lots of things, bills, what people think, what people would do, and it is so good now to think "what the heck" because it really doesnt matter no more. It is a practise thing the more you do it the easier it still is, also being on my own has made me realise how much H put up with from other points of view, too many to go into at one go you havent got enough life left lol, but like I had to get a job, I didnt want to I had to, and he probably felt the same about some of the rotten contracts he took so we could survive. You will come out of this stronger what ever happens just keep that in mind!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
