MHL-I sent her an email letting her know to call before she stopped by...no response yet!
Mishka-In a nutshell my W and I have been seperated for about 7 months and are working on the D. I caught her in an EA in Aug 08. She ended that R, we worked on things for about a year but could never get over the hurdle. She moved out in June of 09, which was a tough decision for her, and then reunited with the EA guy in July. They have been together since and things seem very serious between them. I am doing tough love mainly by restricitng family time (she is a cake eater) but am doing so in a friendly manner. We see each other during the kid exchange and on ocsasion when I loosen the family time boundaries. I believe I would still take her back (I still love her) but my DB options are very limited. If you read the last few pages on this thread you can get a good idea of my sitch and my frame of mind.
Any input you can provide (negative or positive) would be appreciated.
