Sorry guys if I offended you! I was just thinking that dropping the rope is like being completely detached. The only way is to sever the relationship through a D!
So I promise to do a better job of editing before submitting next time!
No offense taken newmama!! Your opinion comes from your sitch and mine comes from my sitch. I have been struggling with that same feeling of not "wanting WH to win" or OW to win, but now it feels like I'm only hurting myself by thinking that way. I am focusing on making myself happy instead. Living for me and my kids only wo WH.
You've got much more patience and determination and things are somewhat pleasant in your sitch. Your WH pays attention to you and you see him very often. OTOH, my sitch... nothing. Pure nastiness and disrespect.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10